God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him.
1 John 4:16
When it comes to love, the Greek language is incredibly descriptive. It has four different words to distinguish between four kinds of love: the love of friends, familia love, sexual love, and unconditional love. This last kind of love, agape, is the one mentioned most frequently in the New Testament. It describes a love bestowed on those who are undeserving, in spite of the possibility of rejection or heart-break. Agape is so unique that, outside the Scriptures, it is found in only one ancient Greek text, where it describes parents' unshakable love for their only child.
God loves you like an only child. His love can't be earned or lost. He loves you simply because you are his. God is more than the source of agape. He is agape. His very essence, his nature, is love, given without obligation or expectation. He loves unconditionally because that is who he is.
Abide means "to dwell." When you invite God's Spirit to dwell in you, agape takes up residence. This gives you the ability to love others the same way God does, without condition. Whether you choose to use that ability is up to you. Unconditional love can lead to disappointment and sorrow. It led Jesus to the Cross, but that choice ultimately led to a victory that could not be gained in any other way. Allow Agape to help you love unconditionally. Others will catch a glimpse of God through you.
To share agape, you have to dwell in God and he in you. That kind of intimate relationship grows through spending time together in prayer and studying Scriptures.
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Pray to God to reveal to you your true love; agape love for self and your neighbor even if it hurts.
God said to find him in the hurt, the disappointment, the unfairness of life. Not an easy direction to follow but when we submit to His will we will find victory in the doing. To God be the glory for happiness on earth as it is in heaven. ~ MME Team